So. Valentines day is around the corner and what do you have planned?

Valentines day for many (including myself) has always brought a blind rush of panic. There are so many awkward aspects to this nationally inflicted day of 'love' that each and every one of us is affected in some way...no matter how much you say “Valentines day is shit” you are never far away from some kind of socially awkward situation.

If you're single, you suddenly have to defend your corner and your exposed single status... coy phone-calls to fellow single friends are made to try n check out what they're doing...maybe arrange some kind of group anti-valentine activity but preferably in-doors as all public outings lead to some kind of depressive/angsty combo and that's not fun.

If you've been with your beau for a long time, a conflicting air of hope lingers; somewhere between an acceptance of the day's consumer greedy demands and a lost faith that maybe he'll sort something out this time.

If you're just starting out, this time of year is exceptionally critical... do you get cards?....presents?! what about the actual date (arghh). Basically it's a social minefield, it's not the best and I've had more painful experiences than good surrounding the 14th but you can't deny there's something childhood sweetheart style cute about the day.

Sincerely yours
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